CATCH UP WITH YOURSELF
Now is the time to evaluate your life and your desires. Go ahead and test
yourself - nobody's looking. Try to find out what your inner desires really are.
Once you know, you can formulate a plan of action, and then achieve your goals.
Right now, write down three things you want. Don't spend time thinking about
them - just write them down. You may be surprised at what you want. Can you
see any relation to the types of desires most sought for?
What accomplishment are you most proud of? What makes you happy - happy
enough to be content, to feel totally relaxed, and to slide back with a smile on
your face?
Without dwelling on failures, mistakes, or past ill feelings, quickly list the
important accomplishments or your life. Think about the places you went to, the
relationships you encountered, and the education you received. Consider your
job changes and positions, and the achievements related to work.
Put a star next to the most important accomplishments of your life. Is there any
correlation with the list of the three things you want most?
MAKE PLANS
Before you go any further with your life, make a list for your future. Write it
down - don't just think it. What would you like to accomplish in the next ten
years? Would it be a new house, a high-paying position, a home in a new city, or
a trip around the world?
Break your list down into those things you'd like to accomplish in the next five
years. Then make one further division into the next six months. What can you
do in the next few months to further you towards your long-term goals?
GOAL SHEET
My most important desires are:
In my lifetime, the most important things I've accomplished:
If I looked back on my lifetime in 20 years, I'd like to have accomplished:
Within 10 years, I'd like to achieve:
Within 5 years, I'd like to achieve:
In the next six months to a year, these are the things I'm going to do to work
towards by goals:
Regardless of your family commitments or your personal relationships and
regardless of your business enterprises or any false sense of achievement, what
do you really want?
Give yourself credit for past accomplishments, and give yourself credit for your
future achievements. You can and will attain all your goals, both long-term and
short-term if you approach them in a step-by-step fashion and if you believe that
they are worthwhile for you.
YOU ARE THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON IN YOUR LIFE.
Although you can be considerate of your environment and all the people in it,
first consider yourself. You must consider your well-being, your happiness, your
success. Make a pact with yourself right now that you will achieve your goals,
and make them realistic to reach. Then, one by one, make your own life the
success it deserves.
BEFORE THE RACE - RELAX
An important step in achieving goals is to be able to relax. You'll get nowhere if
your body and mind are nervous and jittery and jumping from one place or idea
to another. In order to focus on your goal, you must center your being.
Relaxation is the balance of the mental, spiritual and physical aspects of yourself.
Set aside time each day for deep relaxation - not sleep, but relaxation. The state
of deep relaxation is a state of meditation. There are no thoughts in your mind.
There are no physical ills or discomforts. You breathe in deeply, allowing the
lungs to fill with fresh air, and you exhale all the used and stale air. The blood circulates amply throughout every part of your body. You drift through space,
ever towards your true destiny.
Exercise or sports is a good way to get into relaxation. The body needs physical
stimulation to pump blood into all its extremities, and to give the heart a good
workout. Exercise is a wonderful way to let the mind relax, as you place your
thoughts on the way your body moves. For many people, sports and exercise are
enjoyable ways to feel alive, youthful, and fulfilled.
Then take time to relax. Lie down on your back with your arms out, palms up.
Your feet should be about two feet about. You might clench your muscles first.
Then relax them. Allow your thoughts to drift, but don't get caught in them.
Watch them go by, as if they belong to somebody else.
If you have a special problem, tuck that in the back of your mind - don't dwell on
it up front. Let yourself and your emotions go. Breathe out the negative feelings
and emotions; breathe in positive, life-giving air. Float freely. Relax. ASSUME
THE BEST. Expect to achieve; expect to accomplish your desires; expect to
win. Accept less, but push on to attain more. The higher your goals, the further
you'll go. Don't go for less than your full potential. Shoot for the universe. You
owe yourself nothing less.
You have a right to be happy. You have the means to be successful. You can
succeed in what you desire.
Always keep in mind the fact that you are in transit, attaining your goals, moving
through life as though you are an actor and the setting is a stage.
Keep your thoughts firmly planted on prosperity, good fortune and lucky breaks.
Assume that you will, in fact, nearly have accomplished your goals. It is with
that attitude that successful people achieve.
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